Here is a brief video of my mom on Thanksgiving Day in 2008.
She was a beautiful soul and even though she has only been gone 1 day, I miss her terribly.
Rita Spriggs Obituary and Funeral Arrangements
Rita Lou Spriggs, March 1, 1944 – October 16, 2026
My mom, Rita Lou Spriggs, passed away at home on October 16, 2026. I shared that briefly when it happened. I’m posting her obituary and the arrangements here so the details are easy to find. They are also on her page at Burroughs Funeral Home, which is where I would look first for any changes.
Visitation: Monday, October 19, 2026, 6:00 to 8:00 PM, at Burroughs Funeral Home, 1382 NC Highway 65 West, Walnut Cove, NC 27052.
Viewing: Tuesday, October 20, 2026, 10:30 to 11:00 AM, at Welcome Door Baptist Church, 6741 Vance Road, Kernersville, NC 27284.
Funeral service: Tuesday, October 20, 2026, 11:00 AM, at Welcome Door Baptist Church, with Pastor Brian Taylor officiating.
Interment: Wednesday, October 28, 2026, 1:30 PM, at Salisbury National Cemetery, 501 Statesville Boulevard, Salisbury, NC 28144.
Memorials may be made to Hospice of the Piedmont, 1801 Westchester Drive, High Point, NC 27262. Online condolences may be shared at burroughsfuneralhome.com.
Obituary
Rita Lou Pence Spriggs entered into Glory at her home in Walnut Cove, North Carolina, on October 16, 2026.
Rita was born on March 1, 1944, in Charleston, West Virginia, to the late Clifford Henry Pence and Ruth Virginia Webb Pence. In addition to her parents, she was preceded in death by her brothers, Paul Royce, James Donavan, and Troy Virgil. Rita lived the first fifteen years of her life in Coal Fork, Campbells Creek, West Virginia, where her father mined coal for thirty-seven years and her mother was a wonderful homemaker. In 1959, when Rita’s mother became totally blind, the family relocated to Lansing, Michigan, to be near two of Rita’s brothers, who were then public-school teachers. Rita graduated from J.W. Sexton Senior High School and earned her Bachelor of Arts degree from Michigan State University. She then invested thirty years as an exemplary teacher of English, literature and drama with the Bath (Michigan) Community Schools.
Rita was raised in a dedicated Christian family where faith and daily life went hand in hand. A lifelong practicing Christian, she and her husband, Jerry, raised two sons, Jerry David Junior “Dave”, and Matthew “Matt” Jason.
Rita’s calling in life was as an educator and a witness to youth. She was recognized by Who’s Who Among American Teachers for her excellent work, and she dearly loved her students and became lifelong friends with many of her students and colleagues. Her skill and intellect were inspiring, but it was her sweet and tender love for others that left such a lasting impact.
In their fifty-seven years of marriage, Rita and Jerry lived in Michigan, Washington, Illinois, and North Carolina, where they spent their last twenty-eight years. Rita enjoyed the love and support of her church family at Welcome Door Baptist Church.
Rita is survived by her husband, Jerry; her sons and daughters-in-law, Dave and Julie, and Matt and Katherine; granddaughters, Amanda (Will) and Emily; sister-in-law Anna Ruth Pence; nieces Lee Ann Garza (Michael) and Tamara Phillips (Carl); nephews, Paul D. Pence (Judy), Steve Pence (Delsie), Troy Scott (Sheila), and James Pence; nieces-once-removed Christina Bowden (Matt), Autumn Pence, Allison Harris, Lacie Cockerham, Suzie Lenzmeier, and Paige Pence; nephews-once-removed Michael Garza (Malory), Gregory Garza (Becca), Griffin Phillips, and Troy David Pence; extended family; and her former student, Anne (Risch) Verplank, who became like a daughter to her and spent time with her even during the final weeks of her life.
If you would like to know more about the kind of person my mom was, I wrote about her last month in My Mother’s Kindness. Thank you to everyone who has sent prayers and kind words.
My mom passed away on 10/16/2026. She was surrounded by loved ones. Her journey is complete. She brought love and beauty into the lives she touched and will be missed.
My mom has lived longer than medical signs such as liquid intake or blood oxygen would predict. Her resilience is amazing. It is sad to see her struggle to breathe. I am grateful for her and sad that her time drawing to a close.
The hospice nurse has told us that my mom probably has hours left until she passes. She has had a wonderful life. I will miss her.
The hospice nurse told our family that my mom could pass within a week. There is no way to know for certain, but some of the medical signs suggest she may only have a few days. I am grateful for her and will miss her.
My brother, Matt, and sister-in-law, Katherine have come to visit. It is great to see them and am glad they can spend some time with us.
This has been a challenging week with very high caregiving needs for my mom. I had to take the week off from work to take care of her. Even with my wife and I working together, it is a challenge to provide the type of care my mom needs.
The weekend went by very quickly. I was glad to have some time today to see my daughters. I’m looking forward to a good week.
It is 70 F and sunny — A beautiful fall day in North Carolina. I’m glad I have the day off and can enjoy the day.